Personally I'd say yes. I'm not a big club fan but they do have some awesome sites and prime locations. The way I see it is, if you use their sites for a couple of weekends you get your membership back in discount. Agreed they might charge a little more in the first instance but with that does come a standard.
As for rules, yeah the rule book is massive but, ive been a member for 4 years, never read it, I'm 30 years old, like a decent drink, camp with friends etc but then again i respect the people around me and never fell victim of the rules. My view is, They're there to keep away arse holes (which we all want) so its not a problem.